tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8903444.post111824345143359123..comments2023-10-23T11:15:52.472-05:00Comments on Bizzybiz Blog: This Is Ponderous, Man. Really Ponderous.amberancehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16495111316840391202noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8903444.post-1118338792657126642005-06-09T12:39:00.000-05:002005-06-09T12:39:00.000-05:00I say the fuck-friend wins. The whole "no attachm...I say the fuck-friend wins. The whole "no attachment" is definitely the key. Fuck 'em and leave 'em. I recently, okay over a year ago, got out of a thing with a friend-fuck who decided to up and get a girlfriend on me. That's the part that ABSOLUTELY sucks. After being a friend-fuck for almost 3 years, the other person "belonging" to someone else and abruptly ending your long-time friendship, and friend-fuckship is still the worst experience I have gone through. We are no longer even friends....probably because his girlfriend found out we were fucking.LaniLaKaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17285886300771137409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8903444.post-1118338479378312332005-06-09T12:34:00.000-05:002005-06-09T12:34:00.000-05:00But what about those times where that peron seems ...But what about those times where that peron seems to go back and forth between the 2??? I seem to have that going for me at the moment....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8903444.post-1118323309488297102005-06-09T08:21:00.000-05:002005-06-09T08:21:00.000-05:00both are nice--I would tend toward the former beca...both are nice--I would tend toward the former because it's less complicated that way: you know what the rules are. Unless you are really guarded about your feelings, #2 almost inevitably winds up badly. or maybe it always winds up badly in college and if you can hold out 5-6 years later, you realize you can actually accomplish a friend-fuck quite nicely.<BR/>Incidentally, I have seen various bloggers who have happy hours, special meetings, etc, for all of their friends & well-wishers. (chocolate & zucchini is having one in NYC next weekend.) not a completely crazy thing to do, but there is something nice about the anonymity.Tarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07436493892942565134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8903444.post-1118283282469595672005-06-08T21:14:00.000-05:002005-06-08T21:14:00.000-05:00i'm all about the whole friend-fuck (that's the on...i'm all about the whole friend-fuck (that's the one who is also your friend right?) i like to like the person i sleep with... granted it gives you the chance to get hurt, but then you also don't feel like such a slut... and yay Tai's (is it Thursday yet?)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8903444.post-1118269386915441512005-06-08T17:23:00.000-05:002005-06-08T17:23:00.000-05:00It is choices like this that make me feel justifie...It is choices like this that make me feel justified in doing what my friends tell me to do:<BR/><BR/>Go and fuck myself.TheJesusFishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10048210199184776514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8903444.post-1118247275255326142005-06-08T11:14:00.000-05:002005-06-08T11:14:00.000-05:00I've been known, on occasion, to stop by your blog...I've been known, on occasion, to stop by your blog. I too would be freaked out if there were bloggers everywhere. Much as I'm slightly freaked out that people who only know me from my blog are dreaming about Tai's.<BR/><BR/>My friend Timmy, you know, Web Swinger? His wife is into the orchid thing as well. I can't do it. All plants die in my care. I suck at plants.amberancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16495111316840391202noreply@blogger.com